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Culture TV & Radio News Alan Carr says he got outed to his mother by a Ouija board Comedian has just released a show about his childhood in the 1980s
Get a first look at Alan Carr's new sitcom, Changing Ends
Get the latest entertainment news, reviews and star-studded interviews with our Independent Culture email Get the latest entertainment news with our free Culture newsletter Get the latest entertainment news with our free Culture newsletter Alan Carr has told a chaotic anecdote about how he got outed to his mother by a Ouija board.
The comedian, whose TV show Changing Ends is about growing up as the gay son of a fourth division football manager in the 1980s, told the story during an appearance on Kathy Burke ’s Where There’s a Will, There’s a Wake podcast.
“I got outed by a Ouija board,” he said. “It went to spell homosexual in front of my mum and I went goodbye and I pulled the glass.
“So it was going ‘H, O, M, O’ and my mum went ‘homo?’… Yeah. F***ing ghost tried to out me.”
All a shocked Burke could respond with was: “Wow.”
Elsewhere on the episode, Carr talked about why he thinks he will end up dying in a “pub quiz style death” and how he wants his wake to be like a Nineties rave with Gok Wan as the DJ.
He also told Burke about the time he blacked out at a Prince concert and was dropped home in a white van, with no idea who the driver was.
Where There’s a Will, There’s a Wake is available on Apple, Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts. Carr’s episode is out on Tuesday 6 June.
Changing Ends received a five-star review from our critic Sean O’Grady , who wrote that the show is “that most joyous of things: a smart, inventive, honest and charming coming-of-age story”.
He added: “It’s also, in the case of Carr, the making of a national treasure.”
Newcomer Oliver Savell plays a young Carr, while the comic himself pops in with witty cameos and scene-stealing one-liners.
The show is out now on ITVX.
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